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Oliver Drakeford Therapy Publishes Early Findings on Anxiety Therapy Los Angeles Patterns Through Online Quiz
Oliver Drakeford Therapy's early anxiety analysis reveals how anxiety is more than just a feeling and operates as a system of rules. November 10, 2025 / EINPresswire.com / -- Oliver Drakeford Therapy has released early data from The Ten Rules of Anxiety Report, revealing behavioral patterns from hundreds of participants that suggest anxiety functions less as an emotion and more as a system of mental rules designed to maintain safety but often reinforce distress. The findin

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Nov 102 min read


Process Group Therapy Techniques And Tools
If you run or are thinking about running process group therapy, you already know it is less like a skills class and more like a living room where emotional work happens in real time. In this post I walk you through four practical facilitation techniques drawn from Modern Group Analysis that I use to help groups develop emotional connection, clearer self-other boundaries, and better use of words instead of actions. I explain what I do, why I do it, and exactly what I might say

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Nov 18 min read


The Best Relationship Check In Questions to Stop Resentment Before It Starts
If you want a simple, research-backed way to prevent small frustrations from turning into long-term resentment, start using relationship check in questions . After a decade of working with couples, I can say this with certainty: resentment is the silent relationship killer. It hides, multiplies, and eventually makes one or both partners feel disconnected. The antidote is structure — a 10–15 minute ritual built around relationship check in questions that helps you both stay e

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Oct 247 min read


How to Address Conflict in a Relationship: A Five-Step SHARP Framework
We only get to solutions when the problem is the problem.
That line is the backbone of a five-step framework I use with couples who are stuck in cycles of fighting and blame. I call it the SHARP framework — a practical way to figure out what you're actually fighting about so you can stop attacking each other and start solving the real issue.

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Oct 156 min read


Why You Self Sabotage Relationships - Understanding The Sabotage of Serenity Rule
Have you ever noticed that some of your worst arguments happen right after your closest, most intimate moments together? On Sunday...

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Oct 88 min read


Oliver Drakeford Therapy Releases ‘Roommate Phase’ Relationship Report: Disconnection in Couples Therapy Los Angeles
Oliver Drakeford Therapy in Los Angeles released The Roommate Report, revealing relationship patterns in the 74.6% of couples that feel...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Oct 22 min read


couples communication skills: Listening to learn
We need to talk couples communication skills - an in particular - listening. I talk about two completely different types of...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 233 min read


New Research And Statistics: The #1 Communication SkilLS That Predicts Relationship Success
The data from 1,300 couple assessments reveals that having good listening skills is correlated with overall relationship success. This...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 225 min read


Key Statistics: Communication Issues in Relationships and Help For Couples In Los Angeles
Communication issues in relationships are behavioral patterns where partners fail to effectively exchange thoughts, feelings, and needs, affecting 75% of couples with average communication scores of just 39.5%. The results from The C.A.R.E & Intimacy Quiz which 1299 participants have responded to reviews four pillars of relationships success: communication, affection, resolution of conflict and equilibrium.

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Sep 219 min read
2025 Couples INTIMACY STATISTICS AND Report
Analysis of 1,299 couples shows that 75% experience significant communication challenges, with average communication scores of just 39.5%...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 211 min read


Anxiety Therapy West Hollywood: Expert Treatment on Santa Monica Blvd
Welcome! I'm Oliver Drakeford, an anxiety specialist and licensed psychotherapist providing premier anxiety therapy in West Hollywood. ...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 15 min read


Master Family Systems Therapy Training: From Chaos to Breakthrough
amily Systems Therapy Training provides concrete tools for real family sessions, moving beyond theory to help therapists confidently handle complex family dynamics.

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Sep 16 min read


Anxiety Kit: Free Therapist-Made Tools You Can Use Today (+ Printable)
Anxiety is so much more than extreme stress or a physical reaction - the fight, flight or freeze response. It's a much more complex...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Aug 88 min read


Why Positive Affirmations For Anxiety Fail
If you're searching for positive affirmations for anxiety r elief, you might be surprised to learn that the very affirmations you're...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Jun 185 min read


Does Everyone Have AnxietY? The ten laws that You Should Know.
Does everyone have anxiety, or are you the only one struggling with constant worry? You've probably noticed how anxiety seems everywhere...

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Jun 107 min read


What Are My anxiety triggers worksheet
Symptoms of anxiety don't just appear out of nowhere. Behind every anxious feeling anxiety attack or anxiety symptoms lies a...

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Jun 112 min read


Finding The Best Couples Therapy Near You -Los Angeles
Are you typing "couples therapist near me" into your search bar, feeling the weight of relationship challenges and hoping to find local,...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Apr 294 min read


Depression Therapy Los Angeles: Beyond Medication
Medication can and is absolutely an important option when it comes to treating depression, but as a clinician who provides depression...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Mar 234 min read


Masculinity, Mental health and Therapy for men
As a psychotherapist based in West Hollywood, Los Angeles, I've spent nearly a decade providing therapy for men and personally exploring...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Mar 234 min read


Anxiety Therapy West Hollywood: How To Stop Worrying And Overthinking
Worry, overthinking, and anxiety are often used interchangeably, but realizing that worry is not your friend has helped many of my...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Mar 39 min read
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